When the dust settles

It's been a week since I decided two things:
-To start thinking positively
-To not get upset/annoyed/angry with myself when I do not achieve this

How things are going:
I have had negative thoughts, but I've caught myself, and instead of getting into a spiral of negative thoughts about failing and having more negative thoughts. I've stopped and found a positive outlook on the initial thing about which there was a negative thought. The result? My first genuine smile and laugh (two separate occasions I might add) in a very long time.
This might not seem like much, but when you've been lost for so long, it's a wonderful and strange thing.
I cannot say that I am happy yet, but I am better and there is new hope and it is a slow journey, one in which I am certain there will be steps both forward and backward, but it is a journey and there is much life to be lived on that journey so I look forward to what will happen.

I also read a book and it gave me hope and made me feel like I wasn't alone: Hyperbole and a Half

That's all today, just that there is hope, there is an end, and one day we can reach it. But in order to get there we must accept imperfections and accept that we will get it wrong, but this is ok and isn't a bad thing, we will stumble through life but that's half the fun, the stumble is when we find our own limitations and discover new things we can do.

New Day

Today is a new day and with it I have decided on a new attitude, from now on positivity and positive outlooks on life.
If only it were this simple.
The negative thoughts and feelings become a cocoon, they became safe and known place to hide. They may not be bearable or plesant but they stop other unknown feelings, one's which you may not know existed and ones which can hurt and cut deep in a way you may not have known existed.
But also isn't that the point of life? That the light would be nothing without the dark, but that it can make it worth it?
Maybe that's the problem, maybe I haven't found my light yet, so all I am is surrounded by shadows. Well no longer. I can be my own light, and I can find my own way and face my own fears, whatever they may be.
All I have to do is get through the festive period with my own personal devil and if I can do that then I can do anything.

So here and now I declare it, I declare that I shall bring my own light, and I shall chase away my own shadows. I shall look positively on all situations and I shall recognise that this is neither an easy or quick thing to do but my time shall come and I shall get there, to a happier place. For maybe one day I can be free.

This to shall pass.

I guess what we do is we throw ourselves into the darkness, so deep and so far that we hope it cannot touch us, that it cannot reach us within it's depths. We aim to become immune, much like the clownfish and enenomi, by surrounding ourselves with darkness so much and for so long that it can no longer harm us. The problem is that whilst we become immune, and can no longer feel it effects, the effects are still there. Still corroding our inner selves till we are no longer able to return to the light for fear of what we might see. But I am no longer afraid, no longer shall  hide in the darkness, I shall come out into reality and hope to find my feet in the shining sun.

Or even just the shade, the shade would do for now, for a first step.

Piercings and Life

Hello world,
This week has been a hectic week for me, to keep a long story short, I was incredibly busy with a theatre show from the 1st to the 6th (Friday) of December, then I got up the next day and went to the library and studied for 10 hours, and repeated this until my first exam on the Wednesday, had a break that day, went back to the library at 7am the next day, and had my last two exams on the Friday.

So you could say I've had a busy fortnight, except that the week before that I had an essay to write, and the week before that I had a theatre festival to help run. So free time isn't a thing I've had in my life for a while. Yet here I am with *nothing* to do until University starts again on the 13th, a whole month of *free time.
*though several of those days are already full of things, to the point where I've had to make a rule that I shall not do anything during the week between Christmas and New Year.

Interesting things though, the second I found myself with free time, I went and got my ear pierced and my hair re-dyed. So now I truly look the picture of an arts student; helix piercing, tattoo, red hair, leather jewellery and most of the clothes I own are black (a side effect of all the theatre I do...promise...)

Having now had both my cartildge pierced and foot tattooed I can say, with some authroity, that it really isn't that painful, like seriously, I would happily go and get more of each. Sure it's no trip to the spa, but it's also not the most painful thing you've ever experienced.

Anecdote from the piercing place:
I got both my tattoo and piercing done in the same place, and both times I got the weirdest and most wonderful compliments in my life, tattoo "you have really great skin for this, your skin is made to be tattooed" and when getting my ear done, I was told I had "great cartalidge" and "must have been well fed as a child"
It's wonderful, as are the people that work there.

Any ways, I don't think there was really a point to any of this, other than to say that I went and did things now that I have all this free time.

PS I may decide to write reviews of things, from books and films to makeup, so if that sounds interesting then let me know,

OK, bye xx

Two Short Notes from Life

It's how We were:

The heart beat fast. Faster and faster yet. It wouldn’t stop, not now, not yet. It can’t. There isn’t time. If it were to stop then there would be no more time. Maybe that’s it. Maybe that’s what we mean, when we say there is no time, maybe it means we’ve run out and there is no more time, and so no more us. Something may continue but not us, not we, not the Who that we are.

If I let it continue then something will happen. Something has to, there just can’t be this forever, it wouldn’t work. And yet, here we are. Alone in this place, waiting, writing, staring.

It must be what it means. No more time, I mean. When we beat too fast, that’s our heart, fighting for the end, fighting for the last. Hoping, waiting, thinking ‘one more beat will make a difference, that’s what we need, just one more beat, and then, we’ll be gone, free. Forever.’

In Response to someone who thought they'd lost themselves, and just needed to be found:

literary ability has no relation to the mind, but to the soul, and when one is left alone for too long it pines to be free, but can only bleed through the cracks between the words.

A soul like yours, a true soul, is forever free and forever able to create all it wants.

Yet too much freedom can make you forget, make you lose sight of what was once bars of a cage, and through forgetting from whence you came makes you forget where you are going. 

All you need is to remeber,

And then, one day

It will all come rushing back, your true skill and talent in the literary rabbit hole,

But until then, it's ok,

We all get lost sometimes, we just have to find the one thing that can bring us back home

Head Full of Cotton Wool

Head full of cotton wool;

Energy sucked up as if it were water.

Cannot think

Cannot see

Cannot hear.

It’s all there is

Cotton wool

Soft and fluffy for a while,

But it creeps,

And it clogs,

It creates a thick sludge

Everything sticks to it;

And it to everything.

I cannot see

I cannot hear

I cannot think.

I cannot escape the fluff,

I will never escape.

And without escape,

I cannot be.

What is there left?

I do not know,

For beyond the white fluff,

There is only more.

There may be a future,

A past, a present,

But for now the only reality

Is white, fluffy,

And all encompassing.

When we can no longer be.

We will light the fire.

The cotton shall go up in flames,

And when it’s gone then we’ll know.

We’ll know if what’s left is life or ash,

Light or dark.

But to survive,

To get through the flames,

We must first have strength,

So until then,

Until it is time.

We can do nought but exist.

So for now,

That’s all there is.

Fluff, muffling the world,

And once we emerge,

We shall know what the world truly is.

But until then,

All that there is,

Is life.